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In many cases obligation feels likes it’s a huge factor. It’s you’re trying to keep the numbers down in your wedding party do not feel pressured to have someone you hardly know. A true friend will stick around and be happy of your decisions.
These guests of honor need to know that they have huge roles to play. From bridal showers, bachelor party, pep talks to dancing the night away on you big night.
The bride and groom usually choose brothers, sisters, close relatives, or best friends. You as the bride or groom, should take into consideration whether or not this person is will accept the responsibility, and most importantly, if they can afford it. Tell them what you think the cost of their wedding attire may be, and inform them of a possible bridal shower cost, if the rest of the party decides on planning a shower.
Another important thing to keep in mind is not to choose your bridal party too soon. Think about how things change in your life from day to day, now year by year. Even the most cautious bride and groom have to keep in mind that people have lives of their own, some even families with small children, which may definitely take precedence over your special day. If you wish to have someone in your wedding but they have a hectic lifestyle, small children, or who are outright just not reliable, why not designate them a role of handing out wedding programs, or giving a reading during the ceremony.
Lastly enjoy the memories made! Make them one for the books.